Wednesday, September 4, 2013

The Getting Dressed Game

D and I get into the igloo we built together (i.e. completely under the covers of our bed). We cuddle a bit and chat until D says (always in the same tone), "But Mama: we can't stay in here forever." Why not? Because we have to get dressed! But how can we get dressed when it's so freezing cold outside the igloo? Well, here's our strategy: we spring out of the igloo, put on one item of clothing (all the while exclaiming, "Oooh, it's cold! Oooh, it's cold!"), and then jump back into the igloo to warm up before the next item. Repeat, repeat, and by the end of the game, we're dressed.

I think D likes this game because it's amusing and predictable. More importantly, she likes it because it guarantees her a slice of one-on-one time with mama and it satisfies her need for some physical contact/play. I can't remember when we first invented this game but I'd guess it was at least 6 months ago, probably longer.

I'm reminded of how ferociously she resisted getting dressed back when she was two years old. One strategy/game we employed was to play "One Thing." She had to put on one item and then she could go run up and down the hallway before the next item. I suppose One Thing must have been an early precursor of The Getting Dressed Game!

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